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Breaking up with a SO

  • Spy vs. Spy said...

    So who you already bangin' or have waiting in the wings to bang?

    I've never yet heard of or experienced a breakup right before the holidays where the one breaking up isn't already involved in or starting a new relationship. I'm not suggesting you should stay in a relationship you don't want to be in, but every breakup I've ever seen this time of year has always resulted in the dumper somehow lip locked on Christmas Day with a person who was considered "just a long time co-worker/friend/acquaintance/ex" only a few days prior.

    You'd be one of first.

    Funny, she thinks the same thing. Not true though.

    Eds Medicine246

  • get back together on the 27th, dump her on NYE.

    Your average UofM fan and I have something in common, neither of us went to UofM. Though we do share One major difference, I got Accepted.

    MSUDancinBear

  • Ed's Medicine said...

    Don't get me wrong, I feel horrible about it. I just couldn't go through the holidays being fake to her and her family. It had to be done.

    So you didn't feel this way December 1st, December 10th, December 15th? You had to wait until 48 hours before Christmas to do it after things were all planned, gifts were purchased etc?

    You're trash, or you're lying. Probably both.

    This post was edited by Punisher99 on 12/23/2011 at 9:53 AM

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  • MSUDancinBear said...

    get back together on the 27th, dump her on NYE.

    Foolproof plan. I'd run this gambit for every holiday until she catches on.

    Thad Castle

  • Punisher99 said...

    So you didn't feel this way December 1st, December 10th, December 15th? You had to wait until 48 hours before Christmas to do it after things were all planned, gifts were purchased etc?

    You're trash.

    Thanks

    Eds Medicine246

  • Viggo_Martyr said...

    Damn thats sorta shitty thing to do but hey, you gotta do what you gotta do I guess. May I ask why you broke up with her?

    Because she was American? shrug

    "Leave the gun.....take the cannoli" "It's not your job to be as confused as Nigel."

    Son of Sparta

  • Punisher99 said...

    So you didn't feel this way December 1st, December 10th, December 15th? You had to wait until 48 hours before Christmas to do it after things were all planned, gifts were purchased etc?

    You're trash, or you're lying. Probably both.

    Methinks Punisher is a little bitch.

    There is no good time to dump somebody. 2days before Christmas is actually a good time. Both he and his ex will be out of their routines this weekend with their families, which will lessen the pain for both of them.

    TNSpartan

  • Do not accept the gift. If you are this compelled to break up , at this time, then you need to cut everything off.

    UM, Green Bay and Chicago teams all have one thing in common: They all suck

    Clemenza

  • Punisher99 said...

    So you didn't feel this way December 1st, December 10th, December 15th? You had to wait until 48 hours before Christmas to do it after things were all planned, gifts were purchased etc?

    You're trash, or you're lying. Probably both.

    Are you a chick? This would bring new perspective to all your posts, and maybe more understanding since they are consistently whiney. And are you about 12 years old? Just askin'......coffee

    UM, Green Bay and Chicago teams all have one thing in common: They all suck

    Clemenza

  • I'm not really considering "breaking up with a girlfriend" right now, but moreso "stopping talking/hanging out with a girl who I've had sex with a couple times". She is definitely not my girlfriend, but she's a bit of a sleaze and I'm ready to stop talking to her. I'm sure she'll want to hang out a lot over the holidays, and that shit just isn't happening.

    Ryan Van Dyke

  • The classy thing would have been to get her pregnant before dumping her. Then she's not all alone when you're gone.

    Cool Runnings

  • PICS since you are dumping her

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    High Speed

  • Ed's Medicine said...

    So, I just dumped tGF. Breaking up is never an easy thing to do, but is very necessary sometimes. Am I an asshole for the bad timing (2 days before Christmas)?

    She still wants to give me the gift she got me for Christmas. What do I do?

    Happened to me once, I just ended up accepting the gift to make her feel better, then I gave away everything to friends.

    It gives her the feeling that she's making you feel guilty when you accept the gift, I'm all for dulling the blow and giving her a reason to hate me. It makes the aftermath less messy that way. Plus your friends can get some cool stuff. Win Win. Oh and definitely erase the phone number, no need for a drunk NYE text.

    You're doing her a favor if you aren't interested in the relationship. If you waited a week you'd be doing it right after X mas, you can't win, there isn't a better way to break up than to do it as soon as you know it's gonna happen - barring extreme circumstances like big life events (i.e. having a child, night before a big work presentation etc.).

    MAC System87950

  • Best thing to do is call her on Christmas and ask for her hot friend / younger sisters number.

    You might as well swing for the fence now, LOL

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    High Speed

  • Bro in law just broke up with his squirter GF. She offered to come over and blow him all night to get him back.

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    SchwartzPump

  • Ed's Medicine said...

    So, I just dumped tGF. Breaking up is never an easy thing to do, but is very necessary sometimes. Am I an asshole for the bad timing (2 days before Christmas)?

    She still wants to give me the gift she got me for Christmas. What do I do?

    Text her best friend and ask her to call you...you have to something to ask her. Time it so that she calls you when you are meeting your ex to drop stuff off. Then answer the phone in your friendly voice and tell her you'll need to call her back. That will get the ex wondering what the fuck is going on and her heart will drop into her stomach at the thought that you and her best friend are fucking.

    DO IT! DO IT!! lolthumbsup

    tVargMan Prime

  • Thick Face, Black Heart. That's what it's all about. Look it up if you are unfamiliar with it.

    Ernie Pantusso

  • SchwartzPump said...

    Bro in law just broke up with his squirter GF. She offered to come over and blow him all night to get him back.

    Wouldn't that be your sister?

    ApathyRiot

  • ApathyRiot said...

    Wouldn't that be your sister?

    Or his wife's brother.

    Natron tSpartan

  • ApathyRiot said...

    Wouldn't that be your sister?

    or his moms boyfriend...we don't know what state this guy lives in so lets not assume.

    This post was edited by MSUDancinBear on 12/23/2011 at 3:47 PM

    Your average UofM fan and I have something in common, neither of us went to UofM. Though we do share One major difference, I got Accepted.

    MSUDancinBear

  • I love it. You've ruined Christmas for her for at least two or three years. Maybe even Christmas in July. It's the mind fuck that keeps on fucking.

    CAN NOT PLAY WITH EM / CAN NOT WIN WITH EM / CAN NOT COACH WITH EM ///CAN'T DO IT///

    TheBobcat

  • TheBobcat said...

    I love it. You've ruined Christmas for her for at least two or three years. Maybe even Christmas in July. It's the mind fuck that keeps on fucking.

    Yeah if she is a sexless loser who won't get another date in the next month. Party for the next month and put the feelings away in the feelings box.

    RaptorCaptor

  • SchwartzPump said...

    Bro in law just broke up with his squirter GF. She offered to come over and blow him all night to get him back.

    I would be afraid she would try to bite off my dick.

    This post was edited by The Doctor on 12/23/2011 at 4:21 PM

    hoke- to alter or manipulate so as to give a deceptively or superficially improved quality or value.

    The Doctor

  • She gave me the gift. It was an all access pass to her ass and I gave her anal with authority.

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    Eric the Midget

  • VargMan said...

    Text her best friend and ask her to call you...you have to something to ask her. Time it so that she calls you when you are meeting your ex to drop stuff off. Then answer the phone in your friendly voice and tell her you'll need to call her back. That will get the ex wondering what the fuck is going on and her heart will drop into her stomach at the thought that you and her best friend are fucking.

    DO IT! DO IT!! lolthumbsup

    for some reason this made me lol just because there is no revenge aspect or any real reason to do this other than just being a heartless d-bag.

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