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Does she think you make more money than you do? You bought her some nice things, so she may think you're a real baller and not just a pretend baller.
That is part of it I think.
I will love you till the end of time.
i'll give you a sweet hand job for a couple of dog bowls and a watch from target.
So going to Florida makes her not poor? Jesus christ, if that's the criteria I must be Warren Fucking Buffett because I'm so rich that I've gone to Florida in March so many times I refuse to go to that godforsaken state anymore.
Everyone else here has either been too nice to you or made funny one liners (Fletch). I prefer to tell you the truth. You're a fucking idiot. Grow a fucking pair, ditch the bitch and date someone your own age that isn't looking for handouts. If you don't have the game to actually see somebody, then take the money your giving this broad and use it on hookers. In the long run, they're cheaper and less headaches. See? Life is simple when you follow good ole Frank's advice.
Lmao. Mac level sugar daddy. You're a fructose corn syrup daddy at best ... And I'd know, trust me.
Ok, I'll be painfully honest but (hopefully) not a dick:
- She probably thinks you have more money than you do, and that's probably at least 50% of the reason she's seeing you (she does have to like you a bit though, because if she's young and attractive, she could easily find someone who is much richer)
- You're never, EVER going to be her real bf... if you're ok with that, cool... if not, run (she'll keep REALLY dating guys her age or filthy rich guys)
- It seems like you actually ENJOY spoiling her but can't afford to keep spending like this, so just gradually start going smaller with the gifts... for example, a nice but modest silver necklace will cost you about $150, instead of the $300 you spent on the watch
- Once you're at a comfortable "moderate income sugar daddy" level, see if she keeps fucking you... if she does, then you've won at life--if she doesn't, then she's more of a whore than we thought and the supposed money was 95% of the reason she was seeing you
Last but not least, don't be ashamed of your situation: we ALL pay for pussy in one way or another. Enjoy banging the young chick!
The answer to this problem is credit. Run up a bunch of credit card debt and then file bankruptcy. Your pension will be safe. Make sure any other investments are in safe place. You don't own a home, do you? You should be able to ball her for a good year or two.
Oh Frank, you're too cynical.
Is this what a midlife crisis looks like?
35,600 posts and counting since 09-09-2002. tRCMB Dead Pool Commissioner.
Thank you. This is the best advice I've gotten. I do enjoy spoiling her and complementing her. And yes I will enjoy what I got for now and I'll be more reasonable on the spending. Hell if a really rich guy does this at his income level it's okay. So why can't it be okay for me? There are a lot of things about this relationship I like. Sure it's not ideal, but for now it'll be okay and what happens will happen.
The rest of you haters can go to hell. LOL.
This post was edited by Bonerland 18 months ago
No.. "please don't delete" puts it in gHost/blanch schtick territory for me
Since this schtick can spell words out, my bottom dollar's on gHost.
I'm not gHost. I've enjoyed gHost's posts over the years. I remember when gHost was still in Law School at Valpo and when Minnie got fired for relaying trade secrets on here after she left MN to go back to MI.
That's the positive view, here's the negative view:
You are not her sugar daddy, you are her emotional support schmuck. "Adorable and the best" sounds like the shit chicks tell their emotional support schmucks to keep them thinking they have a shot at the snatch while they get their fuck on with the nasty guy. Other code phrases used to keep the emotional support schmuck on life support are: "You're such a great listener...", "You're so awesome!", "What would I do without you?", "You're always there for me!", "You're such a great guy!", and the most laughable: "Why can't I meet a guy like you?"
The emotional support schmuck is the glue that allows certain kinds of hot chicks to date bad boys. Great deal for the bad boy - he gets laid and doesn't have to do any emotional heavy lifting. Great deal for the chick, she gets laid by a guy that turns her on and gets her emotional needs met by the schmuck. Bad deal for the schmuck, he does all the emotional heavy lifting but almost never gets laid.
I know you say you are getting laid, but that kind of cutesy talk makes me wonder. Being secretive tells me that you are worried some of the things you are saying will get back to the hot chick somehow and she will give you the boot. Generally, the fate of the emotional support schmuck is to get dumped if he expresses a romantic interest. The chick wants her schmuck to have the hots for her while at the same time keeping him at arm's length in the friend zone. She has to balance keeping his hope for a relationship alive with keeping him sufficiently doubtful that he doesn't take the risk of asking for more out of the relationship. Once the schmuck asks for more, he is no longer useful and is given the boot.
If you're getting laid, then good for you, but don't invest any emotions into it unless there is a clear change in the way she talks to you. Also, don't believe all the shit she says about her BF. Most of that is designed to get you to give her attention.
Give them NOTHING but take from them EVERYTHING.
But that is the point.
He has not explicitly stated that he IS banging her. He has said there are "things about the relationship he likes", but that's all. That's why I asked above for him to state it outright.
There is a very solid chance (assuming it's not total BS) that he's just paying to hang around her while her and her BF laugh at him.
edit-- being "satisfied with the sex part" does NOT mean you are having sex.
This post was edited by Misterray 18 months ago
"If you want to be the Man, then you have got to BE the Man." -- CA Sparty's Dad
10,000 times this.
It is a sexual relationship. I enjoy the emotional aspects more though in all honesty.
you need to have your estrogen levels checked.
Then take it for what it is, make sure your buget can handle it, and try not to get too attached as long as you are just the guy she's cheating on her real boyfriend with.
MAC level sugar daddy
"Put your mother in a straight-jacket you punk ass white boy." ~ Mike Tyson
Thanks for the advice. You speak some wisdom. I am worried about getting too attached, but I like spoiling her. I just do.
have you repeatedly put your penis in her vagina?
Has your penis entered her orifices? If so, which ones specifically?
One last thing: Prepare for the drama ahead.
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