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Do you know any swingers? Are you one?

  • Spartan 4life said...

    My experience is that one person in the relationship often gets jealous afterwards. Fun as heck for a night, but not so much fun in subsequent days. If you are willing to gamble on the long term relationship with the gf, go for it. If you want her to potentially be a wifey and mother of your children someday, might be a bad idea. For me, funnest night ever turned into a bad deal.

    This. My friend went full on swinger with his Colombian whore wife. They went to negril and he screwed like crazy. She got really upset and filed for divorce. They are now divorced and it was partly due to the swinging.

    Keeping the sunshiners in check since 2000.

    Tanfan

  • Caracas Spartan said...

    I've never had anything more than a threesome with two chicks, but this seems like very good advice.

    Nucky!!' lol

    Keeping the sunshiners in check since 2000.

    Tanfan

  • Johnny2x2x said...

    Slut shaming women is cock blocking on a massive scale. If we didn't shame women about sex so much the world would be a better and more free place. And people would get laid more often too.

    As for me, my girlfriend and I have thought about aspects of going to a swingers club, but don't know whaere to start. Of course it would take a lot of discussion about limits before anything could happen for either of us.

    You realize if chicks fucked like men, you still wouldn't get laid right?

    blanch32

  • TheBlitzIsOn said...

    The consensus I have seen/heard/read on it is that it's fun (for some people) when they're younger and wanting to try new things. By all means go and have some fun. But for older or more serious couples, especially married people, it more often than not ruins their relationship. I don't know if it's jealousy or whatever but it seems like the older people get the more they do it to their own detriment. It's like trying a threesome. Some people try it to spice things up but then it just turns into jealousy, anger, and eventually problems they cannot reconcile.

    yeah but what about younger people who go crazy and eventually settle down and hate being old and tied down? Then they cheat or something and things get bad. Then they have to find more and more freaky stuff to get them off. Its a never ending cycle that our society is getting itself into...

    manofthewild07

  • we call it a dinky drive

    bstarved

  • A.M. wood said...

    what are you gonna do when you've committed and it's pants on the floor time and the dude has a beautiful, huge, bulbous, veiny penis with pubic hair like a brillo pad. it's too late to back out then.

    Hold on tight and enjoy the ride shake

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  • manofthewild07 said...

    yeah but what about younger people who go crazy and eventually settle down and hate being old and tied down? Then they cheat or something and things get bad. Then they have to find more and more freaky stuff to get them off. Its a never ending cycle that our society is getting itself into...

    It is their choice to cheat, no one is making them do it or settle down before they are ready to. And ideally they wouldn't settle down with someone they think is boring or can't satisfy them down the road.

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    Spartan8Ball

  • I have an old girlfriend that I reconnected with recently. Shes into that shit and wanted me to go with her. She's good looking too ( For her age 45- when I was banging her 15 years ago she was smoking hot) It really creeped me out. I've cut off contact.

    Jethro Bodeen

  • Jethro Bodeen said...

    I have an old girlfriend that I reconnected with recently. Shes into that shit and wanted me to go with her. She's good looking too ( For her age 45- when I was banging her 15 years ago she was smoking hot) It really creeped me out. I've cut off contact.

    Feel free to introduce me to her

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  • Johnny2x2x said...

    Slut shaming women is cock blocking on a massive scale. If we didn't shame women about sex so much the world would be a better and more free place. And people would get laid more often too.

    As for me, my girlfriend and I have thought about aspects of going to a swingers club, but don't know whaere to start. Of course it would take a lot of discussion about limits before anything could happen for either of us.

    Agree with this 100%. Especially the stigma girls get while having sex in high school. Life would have been better if high school was just one giant sex fest, especially because the majority of girls are probably at their most attractive then. I've been interacting a lot more with conservative society lately than usual, and the whole "look but don't touch" aspect about it really bothers me.

    This post was edited by The Ladiesman on 7/28/2012 at 9:29 AM

    The Ladiesman

  • The Ladiesman said...

    I've been interacting a lot more with conservative society lately than usual, and the whole "look but don't touch" aspect about it really bothers me.

    Convenient cover for the reality that women do not allow you to touch them.

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    Turtleneck

  • Turtleneck said...

    Convenient cover for the reality that women do not allow you to touch them.

    Haha, that's not the case at all with the crew I usually hang with. I just hate this whole, "Wear skanky clothes and have tits hanging out, but there still needs to be a 2-10 week courting process before any touching of any type occurs." This is why although being politically conservative, I think conservative society is a steaming pile of boring shit.

    This post was edited by The Ladiesman on 7/28/2012 at 9:44 AM

    The Ladiesman

  • The Ladiesman

    2-10 week courting process

    I think they call it stalking.

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  • Turtleneck said...

    I think they call it stalking.

    If stalking is your preferred method of courting a woman, then I'm not sure what to tell you.

    The Ladiesman

  • The Ladiesman said...

    If stalking is your preferred method of courting a woman, then I'm not sure what to tell you.

    I am willing to say that what you consider courting is what women consider stalking.

    That 2-10 week process that you have picked up on is really just the range between times in which the cops were called.

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  • I don’t know how I missed this thread when it was active.

    Several years ago, my wife and I stayed at Hedo II in Negril for a week. We are neither nudists nor swingers. The resort itself is divided somewhat equally between the “prude” side and the “nude” side. One side is clothing-required (except on the prude beach where topless-only is allowed), with the other side being full nude-mandatory.

    How our trip came about:

    When doing some internet scouting while planning our trip, I was trying to find beaches in Jamaica that tended to be less-populated with tourists, as there is nothing worse than having to get to a beach at 9:00 a.m just to ensure a good spot and before all the chaise lounges are gone. I came across a website (http://www.dennyp.com) having a message board with a Hedo II sub-forum. Many nudists/swingers that posted on the forum often wondered why the resort didn’t go full-nude, saying that the prude beach was often deserted, even at the height of tourist season.

    Bingo!

    We booked a week on the prude side and had the beach nearly to ourselves the entire week. My wife finally got the nerve up to go topless on the last day.

    No pics. Cool story, bro..

    This post was edited by Murky Waters on 7/28/2012 at 12:45 PM

    Murky Waters

  • Murky Waters said...

    I don’t know how I missed this thread when it was active.

    Several years ago, my wife and I stayed at Hedo II in Negril for a week. We are neither nudists nor swingers. The resort itself is divided somewhat equally between the “prude” side and the “nude” side. One side is clothing-required (except on the prude beach where topless-only is allowed), with the other side being full nude-mandatory.

    How our trip came about:

    When doing some internet scouting while planning our trip, I was trying to find beaches in Jamaica that tended to be less-populated with tourists, as there is nothing worse than having to get to a beach at 9:00 a.m just to ensure a good spot and before all the chaise lounges are gone. I came across a website (http://www.dennyp.com) having a message board with a Hedo II sub-forum. Many nudists/swingers that posted on the forum often wondered why the resort didn’t go full-nude, saying that the prude beach was often deserted, even at the height of tourist season.

    Bingo!

    We booked a week on the prude side and had the beach nearly to ourselves the entire week. My wife finally got the nerve up to go topless on the last day.

    No pics. Cool story, bro..

    I wish I had more down votes for this post. I count at least three cardinal tRCMB sins in it.

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    Spartan Grunt

  • That actually is a very good idea. However, I've been to Negril and seen some of the people who stayed at Hedonism. It was not a pretty sight. I'm not entirely sure I want to see any of them.

    Alton Brown

  • Murky Waters said...

    I don’t know how I missed this thread when it was active.

    Several years ago, my wife and I stayed at Hedo II in Negril for a week. We are neither nudists nor swingers. The resort itself is divided somewhat equally between the “prude” side and the “nude” side. One side is clothing-required (except on the prude beach where topless-only is allowed), with the other side being full nude-mandatory.

    How our trip came about:

    When doing some internet scouting while planning our trip, I was trying to find beaches in Jamaica that tended to be less-populated with tourists, as there is nothing worse than having to get to a beach at 9:00 a.m just to ensure a good spot and before all the chaise lounges are gone. I came across a website (http://www.dennyp.com) having a message board with a Hedo II sub-forum. Many nudists/swingers that posted on the forum often wondered why the resort didn’t go full-nude, saying that the prude beach was often deserted, even at the height of tourist season.

    Bingo!

    We booked a week on the prude side and had the beach nearly to ourselves the entire week. My wife finally got the nerve up to go topless on the last day.

    No pics. Cool story, bro..

    That actually is a very good idea. However, I've been to Negril and seen some of the people who stayed at Hedonism. It was not a pretty sight. I'm not entirely sure I want to see any of them.

    Alton Brown

  • The Ladiesman said...

    Agree with this 100%. Especially the stigma girls get while having sex in high school. Life would have been better if high school was just one giant sex fest, especially because the majority of girls are probably at their most attractive then. I've been interacting a lot more with conservative society lately than usual, and the whole "look but don't touch" aspect about it really bothers me.

    Fuck off, Nucky

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  • Looks like TanFan tried the lifestyle.

    Tina Norris, James Barfield Arrested After Swinger Orgy Goes Sour In Florida

    They had their cake and ate it, too -- but it tasted horrible. Two Florida swingers got into a battle royale after they solicited guests for sex, and stayed naked even as cops arrived to arrest them, the Hernando Daily reports.

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