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San Juan Kid said...
Tough day today.Alone in Texas without family and just found out my ex girlfriend just took her supposed "new" boyfriend home to her parents for Thanksgiving.
We went out for 3 years and I was very close to her young son,too.
She started having seizures in January(30yrs.old) and broke up with me the morning after a night of seizures in February.
they ran tests and couldn't figure out why the seizures occurred.
She said it wasn't fair to have me take care of her like an invvalid.I suspected her health issues were more serious than she let on.
I was devastated having her and her son ripped out of my life.
She moved to a new house but we texted back and forth for a few months.I would check on her periodicaly by text to make sure she was alright.
In the summer I texted.No answer.Called no answer.Left message,"Hey,just let me know u r ok".Nothing.
I was worried sick that she was alone laying on the floor somewhere with a seizure and since she had moved I couldn't physically check on her.
When I finally reached her by phone the following Monday she said she had gone to South Padre for the weekend and left her phone.She was ok.
I was so pissed that she didnt let me know she was ok.I didn't contact her at all for 3 months.
last month,broke down and sent her a "how r u" text.We started talking.
She said she had a void in her life and still missed me but hadn't contacted me because she didnt want to hurt me and hoped I had moved on.Still had health issues but was taking medication for the seizures.
Said she saw a car with a Spartans sticker and had to pull over she was crying so bad.(This is in San Antonio).
Texted me pics of her son when I asked about him.
Said she hated her life with the stress from her health and it wasn't fair to drop that in someone she loves lap.
Anyway we text for a few days and one night out of the blue she calls me and I miss the call.
Text her the next day and she says she is ok but wee shouldnt contact each other anymore.
I'm like WTF??She says it reminded her of why we weren't together. she used to get pissed if I missed a call.
Says she needs someone there all the time,not some of the time and will be patient waiting to find that person.
I get pissed because I don't think its fair to pull back because of one missed call when I couldnt reach her for days earlier in the summer and was worried to death.
She tells me to let her go.
I wait about a week and send texts periodically over the next couple of weeks with no answer.
Then I see the other day that she goes out with this guy that is supposed to just be a "friend".
Next day she is at Starbucks with "her love".I text .No response.
How do you go from being single and having a void in her life,missing me to having Starbucks with "her love" a month later???
I text her asking if she lied to me about everything and congrats for the miraculous health recovery.
I ask for some kind of response so I can get closure.No answer.Yesterday,send her a glad your happy goodbye text.no answer.
Today see she is on her way to Laredo with her "new" boyfriend.
sorry for the long rant but I have no ffamily here and you guys are it.i feel sick to my stomach and totally used.
i am much more upset that she didnt care enough about me to just tell me she was seeing someone else.prolly been seeing this guy the whole time.
She should have at least given me some kind of response so I could have closure.
Who takes a guy home for Thanksgiving you have been going out with for a month?Even though I am hurt I know the answer.
You don't.
Did this chick ever give a shit about me??I know I am not perfect but damn.
Probably the longest post I have ever made but man it hurts.
CLIFF NOTES:
GF of 3 years breaks up because of health.
Months later we talk again,she is single,misses me and has a void in her life without me.
she gets pissed because I miss a phone call and tells me to get lost.
One month later,she has miraculous health recovery and long time friend is now boyfriend going home with her for Thanksgiving.
I want to puke. -
BSUFanatic said...
The only thing that helps is the passage of time. When my first wife cheated and then split with my daughter, I was devastated. Since then, she has had three more kids with two other dads and hasn't worked a day in the last ten years. I, on the other hand, am happily married for the last 12 years (No I'm posting any pics for you pervs to fap to) and am grateful every day that I'm still not chained to that boat anchor.
Start doing things with friends, meet some new girls, it hurts for a while, but it hurts just a bit less each day.
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San Juan Kid said...
Tough day today.Alone in Texas without family and just found out my ex girlfriend just took her supposed "new" boyfriend home to her parents for Thanksgiving.
We went out for 3 years and I was very close to her young son,too.
She started having seizures in January(30yrs.old) and broke up with me the morning after a night of seizures in February.
they ran tests and couldn't figure out why the seizures occurred.
She said it wasn't fair to have me take care of her like an invvalid.I suspected her health issues were more serious than she let on.
I was devastated having her and her son ripped out of my life.
She moved to a new house but we texted back and forth for a few months.I would check on her periodicaly by text to make sure she was alright.
In the summer I texted.No answer.Called no answer.Left message,"Hey,just let me know u r ok".Nothing.
I was worried sick that she was alone laying on the floor somewhere with a seizure and since she had moved I couldn't physically check on her.
When I finally reached her by phone the following Monday she said she had gone to South Padre for the weekend and left her phone.She was ok.
I was so pissed that she didnt let me know she was ok.I didn't contact her at all for 3 months.
last month,broke down and sent her a "how r u" text.We started talking.
She said she had a void in her life and still missed me but hadn't contacted me because she didnt want to hurt me and hoped I had moved on.Still had health issues but was taking medication for the seizures.
Said she saw a car with a Spartans sticker and had to pull over she was crying so bad.(This is in San Antonio).
Texted me pics of her son when I asked about him.
Said she hated her life with the stress from her health and it wasn't fair to drop that in someone she loves lap.
Anyway we text for a few days and one night out of the blue she calls me and I miss the call.
Text her the next day and she says she is ok but wee shouldnt contact each other anymore.
I'm like WTF??She says it reminded her of why we weren't together. she used to get pissed if I missed a call.
Says she needs someone there all the time,not some of the time and will be patient waiting to find that person.
I get pissed because I don't think its fair to pull back because of one missed call when I couldnt reach her for days earlier in the summer and was worried to death.
She tells me to let her go.
I wait about a week and send texts periodically over the next couple of weeks with no answer.
Then I see the other day that she goes out with this guy that is supposed to just be a "friend".
Next day she is at Starbucks with "her love".I text .No response.
How do you go from being single and having a void in her life,missing me to having Starbucks with "her love" a month later???
I text her asking if she lied to me about everything and congrats for the miraculous health recovery. I ask for some kind of response so I can get closure.No answer.
Yesterday,send her a glad your happy goodbye text.no answer.
Today see she is on her way to Laredo with her "new" boyfriend.
sorry for the long rant but I have no ffamily here and you guys are it.i feel sick to my stomach and totally used.
i am much more upset that she didnt care enough about me to just tell me she was seeing someone else.prolly been seeing this guy the whole time.
She should have at least given me some kind of response so I could have closure.
Who takes a guy home for Thanksgiving you have been going out with for a month?Even though I am hurt I know the answer.
You don't.
Did this chick ever give a shit about me??I know I am not perfect but damn.
Probably the longest post I have ever made but man it hurts.
CLIFF NOTES:
GF of 3 years breaks up because of health. Months later we talk again,she is single,misses me and has a void in her life without me. she gets pissed because I miss a phone call and tells me to get lost. One month later,she has miraculous health recovery and long time friend is now boyfriend going home with her for Thanksgiving. I want to puke.
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tBell Tolls said...
Similar thing happened to me last year. You probably wont get closure. It will fvcking suck s it always does, but better to close the chapter completely and move on. No more texts etc. Defriend her from FB if you have to. Good luck bro. youll be good to go in a year or so.
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San Juan Kid said...
Tough day today.Alone in Texas without family and just found out my ex girlfriend just took her supposed "new" boyfriend home to her parents for Thanksgiving.
We went out for 3 years and I was very close to her young son,too.
She started having seizures in January(30yrs.old) and broke up with me the morning after a night of seizures in February.
they ran tests and couldn't figure out why the seizures occurred.
She said it wasn't fair to have me take care of her like an invvalid.I suspected her health issues were more serious than she let on.
I was devastated having her and her son ripped out of my life.
She moved to a new house but we texted back and forth for a few months.I would check on her periodicaly by text to make sure she was alright.
In the summer I texted.No answer.Called no answer.Left message,"Hey,just let me know u r ok".Nothing.
I was worried sick that she was alone laying on the floor somewhere with a seizure and since she had moved I couldn't physically check on her.
When I finally reached her by phone the following Monday she said she had gone to South Padre for the weekend and left her phone.She was ok.
I was so pissed that she didnt let me know she was ok.I didn't contact her at all for 3 months.
last month,broke down and sent her a "how r u" text.We started talking.
She said she had a void in her life and still missed me but hadn't contacted me because she didnt want to hurt me and hoped I had moved on.Still had health issues but was taking medication for the seizures.
Said she saw a car with a Spartans sticker and had to pull over she was crying so bad.(This is in San Antonio).
Texted me pics of her son when I asked about him.
Said she hated her life with the stress from her health and it wasn't fair to drop that in someone she loves lap.
Anyway we text for a few days and one night out of the blue she calls me and I miss the call.
Text her the next day and she says she is ok but wee shouldnt contact each other anymore.
I'm like WTF??She says it reminded her of why we weren't together. she used to get pissed if I missed a call.
Says she needs someone there all the time,not some of the time and will be patient waiting to find that person.
I get pissed because I don't think its fair to pull back because of one missed call when I couldnt reach her for days earlier in the summer and was worried to death.
She tells me to let her go.
I wait about a week and send texts periodically over the next couple of weeks with no answer.
Then I see the other day that she goes out with this guy that is supposed to just be a "friend".
Next day she is at Starbucks with "her love".I text .No response.
How do you go from being single and having a void in her life,missing me to having Starbucks with "her love" a month later???
I text her asking if she lied to me about everything and congrats for the miraculous health recovery. I ask for some kind of response so I can get closure.No answer.
Yesterday,send her a glad your happy goodbye text.no answer.
Today see she is on her way to Laredo with her "new" boyfriend.
sorry for the long rant but I have no ffamily here and you guys are it.i feel sick to my stomach and totally used.
i am much more upset that she didnt care enough about me to just tell me she was seeing someone else.prolly been seeing this guy the whole time.
She should have at least given me some kind of response so I could have closure.
Who takes a guy home for Thanksgiving you have been going out with for a month?Even though I am hurt I know the answer.
You don't.
Did this chick ever give a shit about me??I know I am not perfect but damn.
Probably the longest post I have ever made but man it hurts.
CLIFF NOTES:
GF of 3 years breaks up because of health. Months later we talk again,she is single,misses me and has a void in her life without me. she gets pissed because I miss a phone call and tells me to get lost. One month later,she has miraculous health recovery and long time friend is now boyfriend going home with her for Thanksgiving. I want to puke.
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Viggo_Martyr said...
Fair enough. Your advice is definitely good and I hope he takes up on it but seriously, it sounds like the guy is a stage 5 clinger. Like this is the only chick that ever spread her legs for him.
We're just giving him some "tough love" (which is what my buddies would do to me if I was depressed over a chick)
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PCL said...
In the spirit of Thanksgiving:
Be thankful that you are a decent person who cares about other people, another chick down the road will appreciate you for that.
Be thankful you are not raising another dude's kid for him, and all the baggage that goes with it.
<<< Be thankful you didn't end up with some chick with chronic health problems, and use this as a lesson to automatically cross any future chick with health problems off your list. Bipolar, crohns, Lyme...write all those chicks off immediately. >>>
This is the best thing that has happened to you, you just don't know it yet.
Dallasparty: "With this attitude, the purest of crap is YOU.Dude, you need to start caring. And that goes for everyone else on here."
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