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Ex takes "new" BF home for Thanksgiving

  • San Juan Kid said...

    She said it wasn't fair to have me take care of her like an invvalid.I suspected her health issues were more serious than she let on.
    She...

    She moved to a new house but we texted back and forth for a few months.I would check on her periodicaly by text to make sure she was alright.

    In the summer I texted.No answer.Called no answer.Left message,"Hey,just let me know u r ok".Nothing.

    She said she had a void in her life and still missed me but hadn't contacted me because she didnt want to hurt me and hoped I had moved on.Still had health issues but was taking medication for the seizures.

    Said she saw a car with a Spartans sticker and had to pull over she was crying so bad.(This is in San Antonio).

    ...
    Anyway we text for a few days and one night out of the blue she calls me and I miss the call.

    Text her the next day and she says she is ok but wee shouldnt contact each other anymore.

    I'm like WTF??She says it reminded her of why we weren't together. she used to get pissed if I missed a call.

    ...

    She tells me to let her go.

    ...

    How do you go from being single and having a void in her life,missing me to having Starbucks with "her love" a month later???

    I text her asking if she lied to me about everything and congrats for the miraculous health recovery. I ask for some kind of response so I can get closure.No answer.

    All right. As someone else said, no chick ever says she's out of a relationship, stands by herself, and dates loosely. The only chicks doing that are chicks guys dumped. As someone once said on the old board, and another poster pointed out on page 1, chicks are like monkeys they swing from vine to vine, and this chick wont be grabbing your banana anymore.

    The nature and extent of her health problem is irrelevant, some day you will understand she left your relationship before that, that was merely the thing she cited to "let you down easy". I have news for you, the "friend" was likely far more then a friend at that point, so you don't fully appreciate it when you think she is taking a new boyfriend of a month home for T'giving. This is someone she has dug for 10 months now, sorry that is rough, but that is how it is.

    She bolted for the security you offered for the excitement of new guy, that hit a rough patch where she wasn't certain where it would go, so she reached back and engaged you with communication. Then, she realized there was a reason she no longer was interested in you, she needed to move forward, and she kicked you to the curb when you "missed" her call.

    She's told you to let her go, and she means it. Yes, she lied to you, do you feel better being right? Sorry, but it sucks to feel like that, but you will learn that questions like you posed don't resolve shit. You think you want an answer for closure until you get it, then you only have 3 more questions and with each one it will only repeat. It's over, and it has been over since long before she moved out 8 months ago, I wish you didn't have to feel any pain but there isn't crap you can do about it. As she said, let her go, move on and live your life well, it's the best revenge.

    vator88

  • TV's Frank said...

    A decent person doesn't automatically cross off a future chick with health problems. I say this as the older brother of a sister with Type I diabetes.

    Bad take.

    There's a big difference between diabetes and frequent seizures.

    Sparty Fan

  • i hate to break it to you, but she broke up with you because you send texts that say things like "how r u" - be a man for god's sake.

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    boozhoo

  • PCL said...

    In the spirit of Thanksgiving:

    Be thankful that you are a decent person who cares about other people, another chick down the road will appreciate you for that.

    Be thankful you are not raising another dude's kid for him, and all the baggage that goes with it.

    Be thankful you didn't end up with some chick with chronic health problems, and use this as a lesson to automatically cross any future chick with health problems off your list. Bipolar, crohns, Lyme...write all those chicks off immediately.

    This is the best thing that has happened to you, you just don't know it yet.

    you're a dick.

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    boozhoo

  • 1. Get a mutual friend to call her and tell her you are having seizures.
    2. Show up at her parents on Christmas
    3. Fake seizure on her front stoop.
    4. ?
    5. Profit

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    Riemenschnieder

  • I'm assuming you know about this stuff with the new guy from Facebook. Maybe you should unfriend her as seeing her statuses is getting to you. In all seriousness though I wouldn;t even let it bug me after hearing your story I have no doubt in my mind that this girl is a lying bitch and not worth your time.

    Duke Silver

  • TV's Frank said...

    A decent person doesn't automatically cross off a future chick with health problems. I say this as the older brother of a sister with Type I diabetes.

    Bad take.

    Didn't explain that great.I guess. Was.looking at medical problems that go hand-in-hand with psychological issues. Unexplained seizures or pseudoseizures I would put in that bucket. Diabetes not as much so.

    However, type I Diabetes does have a average life span considerably less than average. If I met a girl that didn't take care of her diabetes I would get out for that reason.

    PCL

  • He ordered a Grande and then stuffed her with a Venti.

    y2kMgrad

  • San Juan Kid said...

    lol.sorry bro!

    Dude there is a despair poster for this and it should be your screen saver

    http://www.despair.com/persistence.html

    This post was edited by Narwhal on 11/22/2012 at 7:12 PM

    Narwhal

  • BSUFanatic said...

    The only thing that helps is the passage of time. When my first wife cheated and then split with my daughter, I was devastated. Since then, she has had three more kids with two other dads and hasn't worked a day in the last ten years. I, on the other hand, am happily married for the last 12 years (No I'm posting any pics for you pervs to fap to) and am grateful every day that I'm still not chained to that boat anchor.

    Start doing things with friends, meet some new girls, it hurts for a while, but it hurts just a bit less each day.

    Why would we want pictures of your used up, unemployed drive-by cum dumpster of an ex-wife?

    Too far?

    wingfanjim

  • Its the best thing to ever happen to you. When the pain subsides you will realize it.

    William D Ward20616

  • Quit text stalking her like a creeper. Next time the skank calls, if ever as she is obviously taking another dude's cack, tell her to she is a hoebag and hang up with authority. Go out and wrangle a slumpbuster. Never date such a messed up woman again.

    MSUx2

  • Le Flama Blanca said...

    Dude, not to be a dick... but you just found the golden ticket Willy Wonka bar. Time to be awesome at life. Life is short, don't spend time moping around all sad and shit... go do awesome shit.

    As others have mentioned, what are your hobbies? Go travel somewhere. I'm not kidding - this is your time to do whatever you want to do in life. The window for that opportunity is short in that its after you are "grown up" (read: making money) but not too old where you are starting a family and it's not about you anymore. The window is small, and things like relationships, jobs, kids, etc. just fuck it up.

    Go do some awesome shit. Again, life is short - don't waste time. Live it to the fullest. Money over bitches. No regrets. Bros over hoes.

    This. Girls are oppressive ball and chains. If I got dumped I'd get a six pack of bud, a few pizzas, a porn tape and just leave my apartment a complete wreck for a few weeks. Soak up some freedom.

    No more chores, no more bullshit errands, no more ball and chain. It's time to live!

    This post was edited by steveschneider on 11/22/2012 at 7:35 PM

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  • Sorry to hear about the woman trouble. I only have two words of advice: Strip Club.

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    Floyd Robertson

  • Lots of good advice in this thread. I'm going through a similar situation minus the health condition excuss. Make yourself better, realize you're better off, time heals all wounds and get laid ASAP.

    "We'll play anyone, anyplace, anytime!" - Tom Izzo

    ToxSpartan

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  • Sparty Fan said...

    You sound like a total pussy. You really are angry that a girl with some other guy's kid who has frequent seizures left you?

    Consider it a blessing.

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    wolfmat3

  • Dude. The relationship was only 3 years. You're still young and, fortunately, are not married to her and/or have kids. Let her go. Move on.

    And, if she ever comes back...demand anal before she blows you

    The Pantry

  • 3,209,000,000 = number of women on earth.

    "We'll play anyone, anyplace, anytime!" - Tom Izzo

    ToxSpartan

  • OP. It hurts, A LOT. It will pass, but not completely until you find the next good one. Do not use this as a reason to settle on the next one that isn't what this one was. Keep truckin' until you find one that's better. You will know when that is.

    Good Luck !!

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    SeeGreen

  • E-mail this to her

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    December 3, 2011 - Forever haunted by what I witnessed...

    Uncle NitNots

  • Send her a pic text of a strobe light and send that bitch into seizures. Go ahead and go a step further and risk your future by following the original plan with driving to her place, stepping over her shaking body, grabbing her kid, and raising it as your own.

    Fuggawe_Tribe

  • The stalking texts were pathetic. I break up with a girl I'm done. I don't try to contact. I don't call like a pussy. I don't text like a stalker. She wasn't that into to the op. period. She moved on and got a new boyfriend because she wasnt into to the dude. Fuck dude leave her alone and find a new bitch to bone.

    This post was edited by Tanfan on 11/22/2012 at 9:43 PM

    Keeping the sunshiners in check since 2000.

    Tanfan

  • If its any consolation, the same thing will happen to dude #2, and he'll go to the utep boards bitchin about the same thing. But then again, it'll mean she's banging a different guy yet again. Looks like the strippers/blow may be a solid choice.

    Da Sphink

  • Tanfan said...

    The stalking texts were pathetic. I break up with a girl I'm done.


    Well yeah. There's not much else to do when she's dead from old age

    Dallasparty: "With this attitude, the purest of crap is YOU.Dude, you need to start caring. And that goes for everyone else on here."

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