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I just realized I don't have a wife

  • Steely Dan said...

    I'm well aware of this fact. However, I'd rather be able to go for random fresh 30 yr old box when I'm 40 than having to beg for the same 40 yr old vag that I'm already extremely tired of.

    I got news for you 30 year olds looking to give it away to a 40 yr old single, never been married dude do not have fresh "boxes" but enjoy the chase, the multiple denials and the eventual 2:30 whiskey deeck bang..I'll take my consistent once a week action with somebody i'm attracted to and like to be around once i'm done.

    WarSpartans3132

  • EdMartin'sLoan said...

    I've got news for you. Hot college co-eds will not be having sex with you when you're 40.

    sugar daddy

    I must be crazy to be in a loony bin like this.

    RP McMurphy ●

  • Usually the people who play the "well I can bang whoever I want" since I'm not married usually don't have good relationships with people in general and are pretty lonely as they get older.

    They probably were in multiple failed relationships because all they cared about was sex and not the actual person.

    Kudos to you if that's the way you are, a 50 year old fat ass who talks about his days as a 26 year old.

    Hey, I am only 25 and single. It's pretty great right now. But when I'm 30 I am sure I will want to settle down and find a loving partner to have kids with.

    I would imagine it would suck huge balls to get older and not have kids/grandkids.

    Walter_Sanchez

  • Steely Dan said...

    Spoken like a man who has truly given up on life.

    Sounds like you're fishing but if you think life is ONLY about banging fresh box you are a lot more immature than I figured. With a screen name like Steely Dan I figured you would be much wiser. Here's to every job promotion/income increase, good times with friends, new car and new house being underwelming because you can't bang fresh box anymorefingergun

    WarSpartans3132

  • Walter_Sanchez said...

    Usually the people who play the "well I can bang whoever I want" since I'm not married usually don't have good relationships with people in general and are pretty lonely as they get older.

    They probably were in multiple failed relationships because all they cared about was sex and not the actual person.

    Kudos to you if that's the way you are, a 50 year old fat ass who talks about his days as a 26 year old.

    Hey, I am only 25 and single. It's pretty great right now. But when I'm 30 I am sure I will want to settle down and find a loving partner to have kids with.

    I would imagine it would suck huge balls to get older and not have kids/grandkids.

    If all they care about is sex, it's not a "failed relationship". It would actually be quite a successful one in their book.

    Lunchables

  • Steely Dan said...

    I didn't say fresh box was everything, but I certainly want to keep that door open as long as possible. The other things don't require a lifelong commitment to a female either.

    So a hot chick broke your heart and you vowed to never get hurt again eh? So predictable...I feel bad for the lucky girl that you have to "settle for" cause all the good ones are long gone when finally grow up.

    You're an only child right?

    WarSpartans3132

  • War-Spartans said...

    So a hot chick broke your heart and you vowed to never get hurt again eh? So predictable...I feel bad for the lucky girl that you have to "settle for" cause all the good ones are long gone when finally grow up.

    You're an only child right?

    Here's "I'm going to win this argument because I think I know you better than you know yourself" guy.

    Lunchables

  • War-Spartans said...

    So a hot chick broke your heart and you vowed to never get hurt again eh? So predictable...I feel bad for the lucky girl that you have to "settle for" cause all the good ones are long gone when finally grow up.

    You're an only child right?

    Dude we're talking about 26 year olds here. I'm 25 and have had three long term relationships that all ended because of life circumstances outside of control (Job, School etc). I am enjoying single life to the maximum right now and would see no reasons to jump right into a serious LTR. Does that make me a huge loser to?

    Because you got married young, don't act like people can't find good partners after 30. A lot of us aren't fat dudes who live in their mom's basement.

    This post was edited by RaptorCaptor on 3/26/2012 at 2:38 PM

    RaptorCaptor

  • I like this thread because the word "bang" appears in it.

    Royal

  • Right on OP, don't do it unless you find someone you can truly be yourself with. I think the problem with most marriages is that both parties are playing a role. When you start out you are okay with being who you think they want you to be, but eventually you realize that you are putting in a lot of effort just to maintain what's become expected and that part you are playing isn't really who you want to be or who you thought you were before you got married and any attempt to change that role you are playing feels like it is attacked as irresponsible or as if you are rebelling against the marriage and you can't tell her that you feel like the entire relationship is based on a lie because, hell, she'd certainly take that one the wrong way so you just become distant and try not to think about it and eventually she starts becoming "friends" with a guy that can give her the emotional support she's lacking from you and then you get mad and feel betrayed and it devolves more and you eventually leave her. Don't do that.

    (fart sound)

    Rocinante

  • RaptorCaptor said...

    I am enjoying single life to the maximum right now and would see no reasons to jump right into a serious LTR. Does that make me a huge loser to?

    Because you got married young, don't act like people can't find good partners after 30. A lot of us aren't fat dudes who live in their mom's basement.

    Please re-read the thread, my discussion with Steely had nothing to do with marrying young. It was about thinking life is over because you can't bang strange anymore.

    Side note I got married at 30, was/am 185lbs, can run miles around you and you have 15 years on me.

    Best,

    War-Spartans

    WarSpartans3132

  • War-Spartans said...

    Please re-read the thread, my discussion with Steely had nothing to do with marrying young. It was about thinking life is over because you can't bang strange anymore.

    Side note I got married at 30, was/am 185lbs, can run miles around you and you have 15 years on me.

    Best,

    War-Spartans

    Wah Wah wooie Wow! You are so fast!

    RaptorCaptor

  • If you're straight up single and 26 years old, people are probably starting to think you're light in the loafers, not that there's anything wrong with that. In regards to marriage age, it depends a lot on what you do. In the business world, marriage is kind of a requirement, if you want to start climbing the corportate ladder at 26, you should get married post haste. If you are in grad school, law school, med school, then I would say marriage at or after 30 is more the norm these days.

    Thepostmen

  • Rocinante said...

    Right on OP, don't do it unless you find someone you can truly be yourself with. I think the problem with most marriages is that both parties are playing a role. When you start out you are okay with being who you think they want you to be, but eventually you realize that you are putting in a lot of effort just to maintain what's become expected and that part you are playing isn't really who you want to be or who you thought you were before you got married and any attempt to change that role you are playing feels like it is attacked as irresponsible or as if you are rebelling against the marriage and you can't tell her that you feel like the entire relationship is based on a lie because, hell, she'd certainly take that one the wrong way so you just become distant and try not to think about it and eventually she starts becoming "friends" with a guy that can give her the emotional support she's lacking from you and then you get mad and feel betrayed and it devolves more and you eventually leave her. Don't do that.

    i don't know... it's either this or bitches be crazy.

    AMwood

  • Thepostmen said...

    If you're straight up single and 26 years old, people are probably starting to think you're light in the loafers, not that there's anything wrong with that. In regards to marriage age, it depends a lot on what you do. In the business world, marriage is kind of a requirement, if you want to start climbing the corportate ladder at 26, you should get married post haste. If you are in grad school, law school, med school, then I would say marriage at or after 30 is more the norm these days.

    Don't really know the business world. I finish med school in one month, and am starting residency in July. You're first statement just sounds ignorant to me. Where do people think that way? Maybe I just don't meet them.

    I would say in my field (as you noted) my male colleagues who are married either got pressured by a girlfriend before residency, or took the first girl that would speak to them.

    This post has been edited 2 times, most recently by RaptorCaptor on 3/26/2012 at 3:11 PM

    RaptorCaptor

  • Royal said...

    I like this thread because the word "bang" appears in it.

    And "fresh box." thumbsup

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    BrockMidlebrook

  • RaptorCaptor said...

    Don't really know the business world. I finish med school in one month, and am starting residency in July. You're first statement just sounds ignorant to me. Where do people think that way? Maybe I just don't meet them.

    some of my good friends maintain the strictly single life. I know they've been hooking up with girls on and off, but when they eventually get a serious girlfriend people with less inside knowledge start saying "Really? I don't remember him having a girlfriend before"

    Thepostmen

  • Thepostmen said...

    If you're straight up single and 26 years old, people are probably starting to think you're light in the loafers, not that there's anything wrong with that. In regards to marriage age, it depends a lot on what you do. In the business world, marriage is kind of a requirement, if you want to start climbing the corportate ladder at 26, you should get married post haste. If you are in grad school, law school, med school, then I would say marriage at or after 30 is more the norm these days.

    lol

    welcome to 2012, bro.

    I must be crazy to be in a loony bin like this.

    RP McMurphy ●

  • Steely Dan said...

    I've never understood the line of thinking that climbing the corporate ladder requires being married. I have successful friends who are both married and unmarried, but certainly don't think it makes a difference unless your boss is a 80 yr old guy.

    I don't understand it either, but it seems to be pretty true to me. And lets not forget the military, marriage is a requirement if you want to go that route

    Thepostmen

  • Thepostmen said...

    some of my good friends maintain the strictly single life. I know they've been hooking up with girls on and off, but when they eventually get a serious girlfriend people with less inside knowledge start saying "Really? I don't remember him having a girlfriend before"

    I guess...

    My single friends in the business world seem to be killing it compared to my married friends. They are able to easily travel and have much more time to dedicate to work. Maybe it's just selection bias.

    RaptorCaptor

  • Thepostmen said...

    I don't understand it either, but it seems to be pretty true to me. And lets not forget the military, marriage is a requirement if you want to go that route

    No it's not the benefits are just a lot better.

    RaptorCaptor

  • Steely Dan said...

    At the same time though, who cares what some older people think about your lifestyle choices? It's a lot more normal to stay single into the 30s nowadays, and the whole, "Pressure him into marriage by accusing him of being gay!" thing just doesn't work anymore.

    totally agree. But it kind of renders this whole discussion pointless. The OP says "I'm 26 and not married". That's like saying "I'm 26 and like beer". I think it's true for most people that age.

    Thepostmen

  • Thepostmen said...

    totally agree. But it kind of renders this whole discussion pointless. The OP says "I'm 26 and not married". That's like saying "I'm 26 and like beer". I think it's true for most people that age.

    Certainly most RCMBers. He could have also said "I'm 26 and have problems in social situations" or "I'm 26 and have never touched a boobie" or "I'm 26 and I live with 5 roommates and play COD every night".

    F Michigan

    AASpartan

  • Thepostmen said...

    If you're straight up single and 26 years old, people are probably starting to think you're light in the loafers, not that there's anything wrong with that. In regards to marriage age, it depends a lot on what you do. In the business world, marriage is kind of a requirement, if you want to start climbing the corportate ladder at 26, you should get married post haste. If you are in grad school, law school, med school, then I would say marriage at or after 30 is more the norm these days.

    I REMEMBER WHEN THIS WHOOOOOOOOOOLE PLACE USED TO BE ORANGE GROVES. ME AND YOUR UNCLE WOULD RUN DOWN TO MR. STEWARD'S APOTHECARY AND GET ROCK CANDY FOR A NICKEL.

    Royal

  • Steely Dan said...

    At the same time though, who cares what some older people think about your lifestyle choices? It's a lot more normal to stay single into the 30s nowadays, and the whole, "Pressure him into marriage by accusing him of being gay!" thing just doesn't work anymore.

    I'm curious as to your relationship goals. Is it to stay single forever or to get married and have kids at some point?

    MSU Lifer

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