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Moral Dilemma

  • Spartan NutsNE1 said...

    You probably made the decision you would regret the least.

    This.

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  • foshIZZO said...

    I'm more curious to know whether the girl in Go Green Girl's photo is her or not.

    It's me.

    Go Green Girl

  • Diodotus said...

    He should focus on enjoying his life (skiing, drinking beer, having a day off) in the context of his marriage (not being drawn into having sex with random women) so as to avoid complicating his life and infuriating his partner. ...and if you know better Cosmo, please inform us as to how you maintain casual affairs with random strange and a monogamous marriage at the same time.

    This guy gets it. Things are complicated enough with one woman--do you really want to double the complications in your life by adding another woman's issues?

    Ski, relax, enjoy a few brews by yourself. Life won't always be this easy, so don't ruin it with some random 'ho at a bar.

    Manhattan Green

  • Diodotus said...

    see, the level of the woman's interest doesn't change anything. The decision still has to do with what he expects of his wife and what she expects of him. There is the secondary consideration of whether the woman coming onto him is not making a good decision herself, but that only matters once you've crossed the boundary of fidelity. At this point he really doesn't need to worry at all about her. He should focus on enjoying his life (skiing, drinking beer, having a day off) in the context of his marriage (not being drawn into having sex with random women) so as to avoid complicating his life and infuriating his partner. ...and if you know better Cosmo, please inform us as to how you maintain casual affairs with random strange and a monogamous marriage at the same time.

    Way too sensible for this dead-on viewpoint to be posted in tRCMB. Only a few of us know what you're getting at. You need to post something that's extremely superficial, self-serving and lame for it to hit home with the masses.

    Vegas Vic

  • stymie2000 said...

    I thanked her but told her I really had to leave and then left. I feel kind of bad but figure I would have felt worse had I stayed.

    Yeah, much worse ! I'm pretty sure you would have woken up naked in a bathtub filled with ice...

    Banned 12/30/2010 - 1/7/2011 (for not believing in the power of prayer)

    Hitch 22

  • Diodotus said...

    ...so. I don't see any difference except his wife probably has a problem with him having sex with random strange women. shrugYes there are lots of women who will gladly have sex with married men...it's so shocking! uhoh

    really? where?

    y2kMgrad

  • stymie2000 said...

    First off I'm married. On my way home from skiing I stopped at a brew pub for a burger and beer. It was fairly empty and I got seated in the bar area at a tall table with a couple of chairs. It started getting crowded as the tourney games were starting. I finished and was waiting for my credit card receipt when a really attractive, much younger girl asks if she can sit at the table. I said sure figuring she wanted to grab it for her and her friends because all other tables were taken. The waitress brought my receipt as soon as the girl sat down, I signed it, and said have fun to the girl. She looked surprised and said "you're leaving?". I told her I had things to do and I put my hand on the table figuring she hadn't seen my wedding ring. She then told me I should stay for at least one more beer and that she was buying. I thanked her but told her I really had to leave and then left. I feel kind of bad but figure I would have felt worse had I stayed. What would you have done?

    Very stupid, And somebody revoke this guy's man card

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  • Bob Sakimano said...

    oddly enough, marriage is typically the end of sucking..

    uhoh

    What you did prior to marriage is up to you.

    Drunk_dup

  • Spartan NutsNE1 said...

    You probably made the decision you would regret the least.

    Aint that the truth?! Why have I never heard that before?

    Also, when we are taking nominations for poster of the year, someone please bump this thread when I suggest A.M. wood.

    Big John Studd

  • You sure this wasn't at Keystone on saturday?

    I saw an older dude with a State hat on, sitting with a younger female at a high bar table.

    He looked quite uncomfortable and when I said Go Green, he didn't even respond.

    Maybe these hookers are hitting all the summit resorts?

    Le Flama Blanca

  • Should have taken the beer for the road

    The Only Colors

  • stymie2000 said...

    First off I'm married. On my way home from skiing I stopped at a brew pub for a burger and beer. It was fairly empty and I got seated in the bar area at a tall table with a couple of chairs. It started getting crowded as the tourney games were starting. I finished and was waiting for my credit card receipt when a really attractive, much younger girl asks if she can sit at the table. I said sure figuring she wanted to grab it for her and her friends because all other tables were taken. The waitress brought my receipt as soon as the girl sat down, I signed it, and said have fun to the girl. She looked surprised and said "you're leaving?". I told her I had things to do and I put my hand on the table figuring she hadn't seen my wedding ring. She then told me I should stay for at least one more beer and that she was buying. I thanked her but told her I really had to leave and then left. I feel kind of bad but figure I would have felt worse had I stayed. What would you have done?

    I would have made up a better story.

    NigelUno

  • We should merge this with the "what is the most $$$ you've spent at a strip club" thread and see who is contributing to both.

    EdMartinsLoan

  • Diodotus said...

    see, the level of the woman's interest doesn't change anything. The decision still has to do with what he expects of his wife and what she expects of him. There is the secondary consideration of whether the woman coming onto him is not making a good decision herself, but that only matters once you've crossed the boundary of fidelity. At this point he really doesn't need to worry at all about her. He should focus on enjoying his life (skiing, drinking beer, having a day off) in the context of his marriage (not being drawn into having sex with random women) so as to avoid complicating his life and infuriating his partner. ...and if you know better Cosmo, please inform us as to how you maintain casual affairs with random strange and a monogamous marriage at the same time.

    First of all, I'm not married.Yes, I'm thankful for that right now. And no, I don't specialize in random affairs.

    See, you are missing my point; I never said anything about the woman, it's all about YOU. Who cares what the woman is thinking in that bar at the time? And, what if she only wanted to have a beer and talk to him (unlikely but anything's possible)? Obviously he made the right decision and knew one beer leads to two and that leads to getting drunk, and he did the right thing by not saying anything to his wife because he didn't do anything wrong. I think his big "moral dilemma" is whether he should have stayed and had a beer with a nice but assuming female, not whether he would end up having sex with her. It all goes together, yes, but he realistically could have had a beer and then decided to walk out. It's not really a dilemma at all because he left without even realizing the situation he was instantly involved in; he thought about it after he left, on the drive home.

    You are just putting words into my mouth while simultaneously inferring that I am into polygamy or that I regularly have threesomes with random snatch or something. Not the case, not at all.

    What is that, a Titleist? A hole in one...

    Cosmo_Kramer

  • Misterray said...

    You're right....Your overwhelming masculine charm effortlessly pulled in the hot young girl and prompted her approach you ( a man by himself in a bar) to beg you to stay so that she could buy you drinks and take sexual advantage of you despite your wedding ring.

    It's clear that she's just a lonely supermodel in need of your affection.....or she's a prostitute.

    Who shoots sub par golf and hits her tee shots 340 yards.

    "I think the world is run by C students" Al Mcguire

    rob

  • stymie2000 said...

    First off I'm married. On my way home from skiing I stopped at a brew pub for a burger and beer. It was fairly empty and I got seated in the bar area at a tall table with a couple of chairs. It started getting crowded as the tourney games were starting. I finished and was waiting for my credit card receipt when a really attractive, much younger girl asks if she can sit at the table. I said sure figuring she wanted to grab it for her and her friends because all other tables were taken. The waitress brought my receipt as soon as the girl sat down, I signed it, and said have fun to the girl. She looked surprised and said "you're leaving?". I told her I had things to do and I put my hand on the table figuring she hadn't seen my wedding ring. She then told me I should stay for at least one more beer and that she was buying. I thanked her but told her I really had to leave and then left. I feel kind of bad but figure I would have felt worse had I stayed. What would you have done?

    What do you think your wife was doing while you were away?

    Missed opportunity bro.

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    PersonaNONgrata

  • If you take the ring off, it doesn't count as cheating.

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    SpartanNachos

  • stymie2000 said...

    It was on Friday. Took the day off for a powder day at Vail. Believe me, I don't think there are any hookers in Idaho Springs, CO. I have a friend that I know that would have stayed figuring it would have been the polite thing to do. I'm not obessed or second guessing just curious about what others would have done.

    No hookers in Vail...roflmao You are 30 minutes outside of Denver between downtown and Vail and you don't think there's anyone out working on a Friday night? She was probably on her way from Denver to Vail for a week-end working the slopes and figured she stop in and pick a quick trick on the way to get the week-end started...

    http://businessdirectory.aspentimes.com/search.pg?q=escort%20service&z=Idaho%20Springs%2C%20CO

    CA Sparty

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  • CA Sparty said...

    No hookers in Vail...roflmao You are 30 minutes outside of Denver between downtown and Vail and you don't think there's anyone out working on a Friday night? She was probably on her way from Denver to Vail for a week-end working the slopes and figured she stop in and pick a quick trick on the way to get the week-end started...

    http://businessdirectory.aspentimes.com/search.pg?q=escort%20service&z=Idaho%20Springs%2C%20CO

    That is a lot of hookers.
    Well, it is plausible but let's not toy with the poor man. He'd like to think someone who is good looking could legitimately like him.

    Diodotus

  • should look her up on facebook and fap to her

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    tLonelyStoner

  • Annnnnd why doesn't shit like this happen to me? Over the weekend, I was at a cafe in San Diego and a lady waved at me, told me she was leaving and said I could have her table. I sat down, she left then told me her fatass husband had to finish his food. WTF? Never had a more awkward lunch in my entire life. Me and some fat dude I didn't know that couldn't speak a lick of English.

    Consider yourself a lucky man for your encounter, and +1 for the right (although difficult) decision.

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    Throwback702

  • If I were in your situation, I would have definitely stuck around and had the drink with her. While having that drink, I would have attempted to figure out her motives.

    And in the end, I probably would have banged her regardless. Unless you contract an STD from her, you're definitely getting away scot-free.

    Burn The Boats

  • Misterray said...

    You realize that she was a working girl, don't you?

    edit: you beat me to it, goodbar.

    Funny, that was my EXACT thought, once I pretended he was telling the truth!

    blanch32