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Fingercuffs said...
In a relationship, what obligation does your partner have to stay in shape? How disrespectful is it for someone involved in a relationship to let themselves get out of shape and overweight?
A work friend of mine and his wife vowed to lose weight together. They were both obese. He lost over 100 pounds and has kept it off for 3 years. She initially lost 50 pounds, but has gained at least 75 back.
So, he is skinny and in good shape and she is morbidly obese.
How disrespectful is that of her? She gets to enjoy a husband who is fit and looks great, and after working so hard on his own weight, his wife is obese and not willing to work hard for him the way he did for her.
What about relationships in general? One person stays in shape and the other gains weight and isn't willing to work hard. If you care about your partner, shouldn't you be willing to stay in shape for them out of respect?
I'm sorry your "friend" married a fatty.
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Fingercuffs said...
In a relationship, what obligation does your partner have to stay in shape? How disrespectful is it for someone involved in a relationship to let themselves get out of shape and overweight?
A work friend of mine and his wife vowed to lose weight together. They were both obese. He lost over 100 pounds and has kept it off for 3 years. She initially lost 50 pounds, but has gained at least 75 back.
So, he is skinny and in good shape and she is morbidly obese.
How disrespectful is that of her? She gets to enjoy a husband who is fit and looks great, and after working so hard on his own weight, his wife is obese and not willing to work hard for him the way he did for her.
What about relationships in general? One person stays in shape and the other gains weight and isn't willing to work hard. If you care about your partner, shouldn't you be willing to stay in shape for them out of respect?
Good question.
If I am busting my ass to stay in good shape, then well, so should she. Otherwise, it's "later"
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I like how you don't even bother trying the whole 'I want them to be healthy so they live a long time' song and dance
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Both the fiance and I lost a significant amount of weight before meeting each other, and a little more since then, and we've both kept it off for years. If either of us were to balloon up again it would be an issue. I can admit with no problem that he wouldn't have dated me 80 (yes 80) lbs ago.
As for the possibility of him gaining weight down the road, I guess it'd suck that he wasn't as hot, but more than that - we're both so driven to stay healthy now, I'd be concerned about whatever had changed to make him not care anymore.
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Fingercuffs said...
In a relationship, what obligation does your partner have to stay in shape? How disrespectful is it for someone involved in a relationship to let themselves get out of shape and overweight?
A work friend of mine and his wife vowed to lose weight together. They were both obese. He lost over 100 pounds and has kept it off for 3 years. She initially lost 50 pounds, but has gained at least 75 back.
So, he is skinny and in good shape and she is morbidly obese.
How disrespectful is that of her? She gets to enjoy a husband who is fit and looks great, and after working so hard on his own weight, his wife is obese and not willing to work hard for him the way he did for her.
What about relationships in general? One person stays in shape and the other gains weight and isn't willing to work hard. If you care about your partner, shouldn't you be willing to stay in shape for them out of respect?
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MSURed said...
I like how you don't even bother trying the whole 'I want them to be healthy so they live a long time' song and dance
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Both the fiance and I lost a significant amount of weight before meeting each other, and a little more since then, and we've both kept it off for years. If either of us were to balloon up again it would be an issue. I can admit with no problem that he wouldn't have dated me 80 (yes 80) lbs ago.
As for the possibility of him gaining weight down the road, I guess it'd suck that he wasn't as hot, but more than that - we're both so driven to stay healthy now, I'd be concerned about whatever had changed to make him not care anymore.
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that fat bitch! why do you keep posting pictures of food! i get it. you should try bulimia you cow!
What obligation does your partner have to stay in shape?